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BY ED VITAGLIANO | AFA Journal News Editor
Recent sociological studies are revealing a growing scandal within
American Christianity. Many of our churchgoing teens are not Christian
or, perhaps, are marginal believers who profess religious ideas
that represent an astonishing departure from historic Christianity.
In fact, large swaths of our teens hold to views that are decidedly
pagan, according to study results from University of North Carolina
(Chapel Hill) sociologists Christian Smith and Melinda Lundquist
Denton. (See AFA Journal, 11-12/05, 1/06.)
The pair of researchers reported their findings in a stunning book,
Soul Searching: The Religious and Spiritual Lives of American
Teenagers. They said, for example, that "57% of Catholic
youth maybe or definitely believe in reincarnation, 46% in astrology,
48% in communicating with the dead, and 32% in psychics and fortune-tellers.
On the other hand, 33% of conservative Protestant youth maybe
or definitely believe in reincarnation, 33% in astrology, 31% in
communicating with the dead, and 21% in psychics and fortune tellers."
When compared to the clear teachings of Scripture and Christianity,
Smith and Denton said numbers like these were "astounding."
Just as disturbing, according to the Barna Research Group, a polling
firm that focuses on religious trends in the U.S., 63% of self-professed
Christian teens do not believe that Jesus is the Son of the one
true God, and 58% believe all faiths teach equally-valued truths.
How did this spiritual sickness happen and, equally as important,
how can it be cured? Many of the problems and solutions can be found
in the same places.
Home-grown
religion
If "home is where the heart is,"
then home is also where the religious heart of a young person is
often shaped.
While many parents probably doubt that they have much influence
on their teenagers especially as compared to that of
friends or the media the opposite is actually true, Smith
and Denton said.
"Most teenagers and their parents may not realize it, but
a lot of research in the sociology of religion suggests that the
most important social influence in shaping young peoples religious
lives is the religious life modeled and taught by their parents,"
the researchers said.
Even in the research for Soul Searching, Smith and Denton
found "that the importance of faith for teenagers fairly closely
tracks the importance of faith for their parents. Parents for whom
religious faith is quite important are thus likely to be raising
teenagers for whom faith is quite important, while parents whose
faith is not important are likely to be raising teenagers for whom
faith is also not important."
Understanding this truth might be empowering to parents, or even
alarming, they said. But it should not be ignored. The state of
teenage religious beliefs in this country should be "understood
as largely reflecting the world of adult religion, especially parental
religion, and are in strong continuity with it. Few teenagers today
are rejecting or reacting against the adult religion into which
they are being socialized."
So if the religion of churchgoing teens is increasingly non-Christian,
and if their religious beliefs are to a large extent shaped by parents
and other Christian adults, what does this say about the religious
beliefs of the adults themselves?
In his book, Real teens: A Contemporary Snapshot of Youth Culture,
pollster and researcher George Barna reaches the obvious conclusion:
"Without a doubt, teen Americas confusion regarding truth
is a reflection of the distorted and contradictory teaching
" they get from the adults in their lives.
Moreover, beyond simply what adults say about religion is
the manner in which adults live their lives in front of teenagers.
"We may conclude that teenagers dont think about moral
truth often or deeply because they are neither challenged to do
so nor is such behavior modeled for them," Barna said. "Their
attitudes suggest that they have a sneaking suspicion that this
is a vital issue, but without the people they can trust and imitate
devoting themselves to the matter, they have no trouble ignoring
the issue."
The critical importance of parents, then, is why Smith and Denton
suggested that "the best way to get most youth more involved
in and serious about their faith communities is to get their parents
more involved in and serious about their faith communities"
(emphasis in original).
That would mean, they said, that instead of thinking of youth ministry
in isolation, "our findings suggest that overall youth ministry
would probably best be pursued in a larger context of family ministry,
that parents should be viewed as indispensable partners in the religious
formation of youth."
In the end, they insisted, parents "most likely will get from
teens what they as adults themselves are."
Churchs
failure
As for their churchgoing lives outside
the home, teenagers actually have a positive view of their religious
communities. Soul Searching revealed that "the vast
majority of teens find their religious congregation to be a warm
and welcoming place for youth."
Most churchgoing teens, for example, viewed adults in their congregations
as sincere believers and not at all hypocritical. These youth had
also had positive experiences when speaking with their minister
"about a personal question or problem." And with regard
to matters such as family problems, alcohol or troubles at school,
"most attending teens (70%) rate their congregation as a very
good or fairly good place to talk about such serious issues."
But this does not contradict the main thesis of Soul Searching,
which is that many teens view religion as a therapeutic endeavor,
more for their own personal growth and development than as something
which brings them into closer communion with God. In this view of
Christianity, repentance and faith in Christ have been replaced
by feeling good about oneself and being a good person; absolute
truth is exchanged for relativism; and knowledge of Biblical doctrine
is displaced by the rather ethereal view that all religious belief
or even no religious belief is basically the
same.
If church leaders are disturbed to discover that this decidedly
non-Christian faith is inhabiting the hearts of their youth, Smith
and Denton suggested they take a long, hard look at the way they
approach the education of teenagers.
The researchers stated: "Our distinct impression is that very
many congregations and communities of faith in the United States
are failing rather badly in religiously engaging and educating their
youth."
How
can churches improve?
So what do Smith and Denton suggest
churches do in order to bring their teens into a more genuine and
vibrant experience of the Christian faith? Based on their research,
the authors of Soul Searching propose the following (among
other recommendations):
Make teens a priority.
While it might seem to make sense for churches to focus ministry
on the people who pay the bills that is, adults
ignoring teenagers or putting little priority on them can spell
spiritual disaster for those youth.
"Religious congregations that prioritize ministry to youth
and support for their parents, invest in trained and skilled youth
group leaders, and make serious efforts to engage and teach adolescents
seem much more likely to draw youth into their religious lives
and to foster religious and spiritual maturity in their young
members," Soul Searching said.
The authors added: "Stated negatively, when religious communities
do not invest in their youth, unsurprisingly, their youth are
less likely to invest in their religious faith."
Dont apologize for
religious instruction. Smith and Denton surmised that there
is a hesitancy among many Christian adults to speak about their
faith in a confident manner. But they insisted, "Faith communities
have no reason to apologize for or be insecure about teaching
their youth."
In fact, teens are already familiar with adult confidence in
other matters, so this apparent insecurity about matters of religion
struck the researchers as puzzling. "Adults do not hesitate
to direct and expect from teens when it comes to school, sports,
music, and beyond," they said. "But there seems to be
a curious reluctance among many adults to teach teens when it
comes to faith. Adults often seem to want to do little more than
expose teens to religion."
But this approach to matters of faith fails to take into account
the manner in which youth learn. It is not so much from a vague
wave-of-the-hand in the direction of truth, but rather the clear
presentation by word and deed of what adults truly
believe.
"Teens learn everything they know from someone, somewhere,"
Smith and Denton said. "Many youth actually consciously do
want to be taught; they are open to being influenced by good word
and example."
Expect teens to articulate
their faith. One of the most striking things about interviewing
teenagers about their faith, Smith and Denton said, was how inarticulate
young people were about the most basic aspects of Christianity.
This shortcoming was, they suspected, the fault of church leaders
who failed to engage teens in vibrant discussions about their
faith.
"We were astounded by the realization that for very many
teens we interviewed, it seemed as if our interview was the first
time any adult had ever asked them what they believed," Soul
Searching said.
Adults should not only busy themselves with teaching the precepts
of the Christian faith, but also "expecting meaningful responses
from [teens]."
The expectation from adults that teens could learn and then express
their own faith would arise as Christian educators gave opportunity
for self-expression.
"A major challenge for religious educators of youth, therefore,
seems to us to be fostering articulation, helping teens to practice
talking about their faith, providing practice at using vocabularies,
grammars, stories, and key messages of faith" (emphasis
in original).
Invest time in teens.
None of these suggestions, of course, are easy to implement,
nor could they be implemented without sacrifice on the part of
adults.
"Adults should be aware, however, that better adult teaching
of youth will require stronger adult relationships with youth.
More important in the effective religious teaching of teens than,
say, new pedagogical techniques will be the building of sustained,
meaningful, personal adult relationships with the teens they teach,"
Smith and Denton said. "This will require investments of
time, attention, and readiness to be open and vulnerable with
teens."
However, if Christian adults insist on remaining detached from
their teens, or little interested in their spiritual development
beyond a halfhearted effort to expose teens to religion, the church
will risk losing the greater part of an entire generation of young
people.
Refusing to change in the face of growing evidence of
the need for it might then be the greatest scandal of all.
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