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BY
REBECCA GRACE | AFA Journal Staff Writer
Moving to California as an aspiring 12-year-old actress sheds a
whole new light on the teenage life, especially when Mom and Dad
dont go. For Lisa Whelchel, widely recognized as Blair Warner
from the 80s sitcom The Facts of Life, such marked
the beginning of a career in the entertainment industry and eventually
led to her favorite recurring role as a full-time wife and mother
in a reality show called life.
Now, 17 years after leaving the industry, she has fond memories
of her days in show business and credits her success to Gods
grace and the constant hold He had on her life from such a young
age.
Whelchel began acting at the age of seven after her mother put
her in acting classes to overcome shyness. Acting came naturally
for Whelchel, but it wasnt until five years later that she
got her big break.
"I was in a lot of plays and musical theater," Whelchel
told AFA Journal. "Then when we heard that Walt Disney
was searching for 12 new Mouseketeers for a new Mickey Mouse
Club, I auditioned for that."
And it was the role of Mouseketeer that took her to California
and set her on a road to stardom.
The
facts of life as a Christian
"From the time I was
10, there was no question that my life was not about being famous,"
she explained. "It was about my identity in Christ, and it
wasnt about Hollywood. It was about obedience to the Lord
and what He wanted for me."
Although Whelchel, originally from the South, did not grow up in
a church-going home, she started attending church on her own at
the age of 10 after she and a friend decided it would be a fun thing
to do. So they went.
For Whelchel, it was the first of many more visits to come. Although
she couldnt explain it at the time, she now realizes her heart
found its home in that small church and her life took on a new meaning.
"I just responded to the Lords love and His offer for
salvation and a relationship with me," Whelchel said.
Its that eternal relationship that sustains her today just
as it did during her time in the entertainment industry. But as
any mature believer knows, merely calling herself a Christian doesnt
result in a steadfast devotion to Christ, especially in Hollywood.
The
facts of life in show business
When it comes to remaining
faithful inside, as well as outside, the industry, she said, "[Other
than Gods grace] I would have to say just the practical discipline
of spending time with Him everyday in the Word, in prayer, and in
worship" is of utmost importance. In addition, Whelchel places
value in getting locked into a body of believers where accountability
and fellowship are readily available.
But it ultimately boils down to "daily denying your own desires,
agendas, goals and dreams and submitting them to the Lord, seeking
first His kingdom and then letting Him add the things He wants to
your life," Whelchel explained. "That may be success in
Hollywood, and that may not be."
But to Whelchel, risking success didnt matter when it came
to her devotion to Christ. For example, she took a bold stand on
the set of The Facts of Life early on in the show.
"They wanted my character to lose her virginity, and I was
able to stand up and say, I cant do that. I cant
use the talent God has given me to continue to perpetuate the lie
that sex outside of marriage is just a normal fact of life,"
Whelchel recalled. "The producers were very honoring of that
and respectful and didnt ultimately write that script for
me.
"So I was thankful for the opportunity, however small, to
take a stand for righteousness," she added.
The
facts of life in Hollywood
"Ive been out of
the industry for over 15 years, so from my friends that are still
in, they say its much, much harder much tougher, much
uglier," Whelchel admitted.
Until very recently, Whelchel felt as if God had abandoned Hollywood
altogether.
"[But] I do feel
that in just the last few years, from
what Im hearing and from friends, that the Lord is planting
people who are making a difference in Hollywood," she said.
This is encouraging since there were very few Christians filling
the roles of writers, producers, directors and actors during Whelchels
time in the industry.
"I think a lot of that had to do with the fact that it [Hollywood]
is such a hostile environment to the ways of the Lord," Whelchel
said. "[Only] in the last two, three years have I seen any
kind of glimmer of light being able to pierce the darkness."
Therefore, Whelchel urges industry insiders to step back and take
a look at the end goal of each project being produced.
"I would encourage them to think about the influence
for positive or negative that they are going to make and
how it is going to shape the culture because it will shape the culture,"
she explained.
The
facts of life as a wise consumer
But Whelchel is quick
to admit that the emerging change in Hollywood is not totally in
the hands of its insiders.
"Its up to the people the consumers," she
said.
She believes it is the responsibility of the Christian consumer
to stop going to R-rated movies and to stop watching TV shows that
are immoral. Instead, the consumer should support family-friendly
movies and programs so that Hollywood will recognize the demand
for more wholesome entertainment.
"We cant put all the blame on Hollywood," Whelchel
said. "They have much less power than the consumer."
Therefore, Whelchel and her husband Steve Cauble, associate pastor
and director of information technologies at The Church on the Way
in Los Angeles, seek to be responsible consumers by monitoring their
familys media intake. Due to the familys busy schedule,
none of them find much time for television. But, a family favorite
in the Cauble household is old reruns of The Facts of Life
that are loved by Whelchels most loyal fans, her children
Clancy, 13, Haven, 14, and Tucker, 15.
"As far as movies, whenever our kids want to go see a movie,
I immediately go to either www.pluggedinonline.com
or www.screenit.com,
or both, and find out if its something that is going to feed
their spirit or their flesh," Whelchel explained. "They
know Im not going to sign off on most movies."
So the family usually waits until the movies come out on Clean
Flicks, a business similar to Clean Films, a sponsor of AFA. Both
companies take popular Hollywood movies and professionally edit
out the offensive content making the movies free of profanity, nudity,
graphic violence and sexual situations (www.cleanfilms.com).
"So we can still enjoy the story as a family," Whelchel
said.
The
facts of life as defined by family
After all, Whelchel
places great value on her family. In fact, it was family that led
her to leave the entertainment industry after she met Cauble in
a prayer group at church.
"We filmed the last episode of The Facts of Life in
1988, and I got married a few months later and [eventually] had
three children three years in a row," she explained. "So
I got out because the choice to be a full-time wife and mother was
just so much more enticing to me."
It was her love of motherhood that made the transition from Hollywood
to home rather easy.
"There were certainly some difficult challenges going from
making a lot of money to living on a pastors salary and going
from the whole world revolving around me to
the mothers
life
[that] revolves around everyone else except yourself,"
she admitted. "But
like all those things that are tough,
the joy outweighs the pain."
And Whelchel is quick to say that she doesnt miss her life
in the entertainment industry nor does she regret it.
"I dont look back with anything other than fond and
happy memories," she said. "But really nothing compares
to the simple thrills of what God has made me to be as a wife and
a mom."
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