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By
Randall Murphree | AFA Journal Editor
Author and pollster George Barna is more than your run-of-the-mill
political pundit or off-the-cuff cultural commentator. Barna is
more accurate. More grounded in fact. More credible. And often more
frightening. His observations and commentaries are based on hard
data.
Barna founded the Barna Research Group in Ventura, California, in
1984, and ever since, hes been pouring out an endless stream
of research that defines the state of the church in America today.
More frightening? Yes if were serious about absolute
truth and moral values based on Scripture. For example, one recent
Barna poll reveals that most Christian teenagers see nothing wrong
with making illegal copies of CDs for their friends. Another shows
that only half of Protestant pastors have a Biblical worldview.
These two facts are representative of a long list of startling studies
available at www.barna.org.
George Barna talked recently about his ministry and contemporary
moral issues; (Click here for
Q&A interview.) and about parenting. He and his wife, Nancy,
take very seriously their responsibility to teach, model and encourage
right moral behavior for their daughters, Samantha and Corban. His
latest book is Transforming Children into Spiritual Champions
(Gospel Light, 2003).
"Weve got to train our kids to think on a moral and spiritual
level," Barna says. "The schools arent going to
do it, churches arent going to do it. Thats our primary
job as parents. When we look at Scripture, it says that responsibility
is nobody elses but mine. I chose to have kids, so thats
part of my job. You dont want the job? Dont have kids."
The Barnas are home schoolers. It gives them an advantage in what
Barna sees as the most critical element in rearing godly children
relationship. He says a sound and positive relationship between
the generations encompasses parental control, authentic faith and
on-going dialogue.
"We basically dont watch television," Barna says.
"When we do, we watch together as a family. My wife and I pretty
much determine what anybody can watch. We will talk to the kids
about it afterwards What was good about that? What was bad?
Was that true? Was that appropriate?"
They allow the girls up to 90 minutes of screen time each day
computer, television or movie screen. Still, everything they choose
must be approved first by Mom and Dad.
The Barnas try to model their Christian faith, offering a consistent
and real example for their children. "If kids dont see
you living out your faith," he says, "they wont
take it seriously."
Finally, it is critical for parents to talk with their children
debate the issues, analyze whats occurring in culture.
"Youve got to spend a lot of time talking with them about
what theyre seeing, how theyre interpreting it, whats
right or wrong and why," Barna says.
Measured against the context of discouraging research findings,
George Barna might well have become a cynic. But he hasnt.
Hes still a warrior in the battle to redeem American culture
and he hopes to see a Biblical worldview gain ground again.
"This whole worldview discussion is so critical," he says.
"Most Christians have no idea why any of this stuff [is morally
right or wrong.]" Barnas book Think Like Jesus
(Integrity Publishers, 2003) is in effect a basic textbook on how
to develop a Christian worldview. It covers a full range of moral
issues and cites Scriptural principles that establish truth.
Barna says research shows that what a person believes at age 13
is what he pretty much dies believing. So it is critical that parents
be moral role models and teachers for their children. "What
we know about the younger generation in America today is, if they
dont see it, they dont care what your say or what youre
asking them to do because youre not real to them."
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